Note: This post is *not* about romance novels or subgenres of romance (e.g. paranormal romance, romantic suspense, other genres containing the word romance). Romance, by definition, revolves around two characters getting a happily ever after. This post is about love interests in books that are *not* romance novels.
Despite being a romantic, I'm incredibly bored by actual romance. I don't represent romance as a genre and it would be difficult to find a love story in books I represent that isn't at least a little bit nontraditional. Don't get me wrong; there are plenty of people who love cute, uncomplicated romances (and plenty of agents who represent them). I'm just not one of them. Why am I so heartless?
Well, I'm not. I just need more convincing that these characters belong together. Romance readers (including the agents and editors who work with romance novels) have the ability to get swept up in the characters' obvious devotion to each other. When we say "publishing is subjective" we mean it because the same way not everyone can suspend their disbelief for fantasy novels, I find it hard to suspend mine for romance. What I do love, though, is rooting for two characters to get together. Like tiny Fred Savage in The Princess Bride, I need to be tricked into liking romance. But once I'm hooked, I will shout for the main characters to just kiss already!
When I'm reading a novel and it's clear love interests are starting to form, I prepare myself to ask the following questions:
1. Who are these characters outside of their attraction for each other? Do we see them do other things, have other friends, and have independent lives before the other person enters the picture?
2. Do they maintain that independent life even after the other person enters the picture?
3. Is the main plot of the novel (i.e. not their romance) strong enough to stand on its own?
4. Is it clear why they love each other? Is the writer showing me something deeper than an appreciation for good looks?
5. Are the characters falling in love while they're doing other things? Or do they just gaze at each other and call it love? (coughTwilightcoughcough)
Sorry I had something in my throat. Moving on.
If I can't answer those questions then that type of romance is probably not for me. I don't want to be happy the main characters got together because I was told I should be. I want to know it's deserved and that they've both experienced life enough to make a real decision in the end. So that when Logan tells Veronica they should have been epic, I melt. Or when Jordan finally holds Angela's hand, I feel her excitement. And while, yes, both of those scenes involve high school students, let's not forget how we all feel right before a first kiss with a new person who just might be The Person. We're all teenagers in that moment, and if you're not you're doing it wrong.
I'm a person who loves love, but I hate blind love. Give me two whole people coming together to share something because there's no one else they can share it with, not because they need a second half. You characters deserve to find happiness on their own terms, and your readers deserve to feel satisfied by their decision.