I'm a big fan of writer's conferences. I went to two last month, have one coming up this month, and another in August. Last year I went to nine of them (which, I admit, contributed to my slight burn-out by the end of 2012). I like meeting writers from other parts of the country. I like seeing other parts of the country. And I like knowing that even in the smallest of towns far, far away from Big Literary New York City, there are tight communities that care just as much about the craft of writing as they do about the business of getting published.
No matter where and what conference I attend, there are always similarities among the writers. I've gotten quite good at knowing who is ready for publication and who still needs time to find their voice, as eager as they may be. Of course, the best times are when writers surprise me.
In 2011, I wrote a post on how to pitch to an agent at conferences, or rather, how not to pitch. Since then I've been to a lot more conferences and met a lot more writers. More than just pitching to an agent, here are a few tips to keep in mind when attending a writer's conference:
1. You Will Not Leave a Conference With an Offer of Representation
OK, I'll say you will very very rarely get an offer of rep at a conference because I'm sure there have been exceptions to this rule somewhere. But, 99.9% of the time, you will not get this offer at the actual conference. Going to a conference based on who the faculty will be is great, but keep in mind that even if your dream agent (which you should not have!) attends, he or she still needs to read your work before making an offer. Your pitch, premise, and overall demeanor could be perfect all weekend, and you may even make a personal connection with the agent of your choice, but that doesn't mean we can magically pull a contract out of our back pockets. Your job is to pitch your project to an agent. Even if they say "yes," that "yes" is usually followed by "send me your query and sample pages." I've had writers stare at me blankly even after I told them to send me material, as if they expected more from me. Do you really want an agent who doesn't even read your work first? No.
2. A Conference is For Learning
Meeting agents and editors is great, but the main reason to attend a conference is to learn. Conferences provide more than just pitch sessions. Agents and editors often critique work, and the organizers of the conference offer several excellent seminars and workshops for writers to attend. It's about learning the craft, learning the business, and learning that just because you finished your novel doesn't mean it's ready for publication.
3. Writer-Friends Are Valuable
Regional conferences are the best way to meet other writers in your area. Your friends and family can provide all the support in the world, and a few of them may even be skilled enough to read your work objectively. But writer-friends? They are a special breed. They can turn into Real Friends, but unlike your non-writer friends, they know exactly what you're going through. They're going through it too. They know what writer's block is; they know what querying is like; they know the hell that is the revision process. Having them in close proximity means you can also get offline and grab a drink (or a cupcake) with them, which is just as important as sharing your work sometimes.
4. No One is Forcing You to Attend a Conference
Conferences are expensive. Organizers need to pay for the location, provide meals, cover travel and hotel costs for faculty, and a lot of other minor expenses that add up. That means you, the writer, have to pay to attend. You get quite a bit for your money, but it's still your money. Remember that you volunteered it for the opportunity to be there. It's amazing how many writers yawn their way through seminars, become defensive over critiques, and ask questions such as "what good is an agent anyway?" during Q&A sessions. It makes one wonder, why are you even here???
5. Agents and Editors are People Too
Please treat us with respect. This post at From the Write Angle is one to bookmark and memorize about this point. Also, understand that the time to pitch your book is not when we are chewing our food or going to the bathroom. Thanks. :)
How many of you have attended writer's conferences? What do you wish you knew about them before you attended that you know now?